Remedial Training on how to talk to Don

I don't know how to talk to people dying of cancer.

I have some ideas for how you can talk to me when we have the chance.

First, look at my face and eyes!  Am I happy to see you? Am I smiling? No need to ask me how I'm doing. You can see it in my face.  That's why I'm writing this blog, so you'll know how I'm doing.

I am not interested in discussing your cancer, your friends cancer, your third cousins cancer and how they were diagnosed as terminal and living well for 30 years.  I'm also not interested in discussing my cancer either.

I like to think we're talking because we know and like each other.  Tell me something fun. Especially if you are a kid or have a kid I taught in primary, Sunday school, cub scouts, boy scouts, or went on trek with, etc.  Tell me crazy things you or they have done.  I'll do my best to be the "Don" you know by saying my typical fun, dumb things to get a laugh.

I like to talk about problems that need solving.  I get great enjoyment thinking through, designing, and making things that solve some small or big problem.

I like to talk about software in general and software team leadership in particular.  If you have that interest, schedule some time with me and let's have some fun.

I love to play board games with friends.  You can always talk to me about the next time we'll have a chance to play a game.